Shannon L. Alder is a prominent author, speaker, and life coach who has inspired countless individuals through her empowering quotes. Her words of wisdom cover a wide range of topics, including love, self-improvement, and relationships. Shannon’s quotes are known for their insightful and thought-provoking nature, and have touched the hearts of many readers around the world.
In this article, we will explore some of Shannon L. Alder’s most inspiring quotes, and the powerful messages they convey. Whether you’re seeking motivation, guidance, or simply a new perspective on life, Shannon L. Alder’s words are sure to leave a lasting impression.
95 Shannon L. Alder Quotes
- “One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.”
2. “Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.”
3. “The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.”
3. “Fear is the glue that keeps you stuck. Faith is the solvent that sets you free.”
4. “Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.”
5. “Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.”
6. “It is better to be alone than to become a person that loses his soul to the fear of loneliness.”
7. “Money isn’t the solution to your problems. It only lets you carry your unhappiness around in style.”
8. “The important thing isn’t what other people think you are; it’s who you are.”
9. “If you go looking for love you won’t find it because love is never lost; only we are lost.”
10. “Sometimes your light shines so bright that it blinds people from seeing who you really are.”
11. “People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.”
12. “True regret is knowing you missed your only opportunity to be simply a good friend to someone that was exactly like you.”
Inspirational Shannon L. Alder Quotes
13. “There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”
14. “The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.”
15. “Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.”
16. “If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.”
17. “Real women fight for something, other than their own emotions.”
18. “Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.”
19. “Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in was a lie.”
20. “The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you, that you didn’t know about yourself.”
21. “The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.”
22. “Never fall in love with someone that won’t fight for you because when the real battles begin they won’t pull your heart to safety, but they will their own.”
23. “The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.”
Shannon L. Alder Quotes About Life
24. “Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.”
25. “A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence.”
26. “He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned the secret of life.”
27. “Your perspective on life comes from the cage you were held captive in.”
28. “Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn’t change the heart of others– it only changes yours.”
29. “The best kind of happiness is a habit you’re passionate about.”
30. “When a person is punished for their honesty they begin to learn to lie.”
31. “The most important thing is this: to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become tomorrow.”
32. “When you lose your ego, you win. It really is that simple.”
33. “Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty.”
34. “Faith requires following the power of a whisper.”
35. “When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to see all the doors God has open in front of you.”
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36. “Soul connections are not often found and are worth every bit of fight left in you to keep.”
37. “Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth.”
38. “You know your testimony is strong when your roots are so deep that other people’s storms will never knock you over.”
39. “When relationships fail it is usually because someone chooses not to show up for the battle.”
40. “You don’t have to say everything to be a light. Sometimes a fire built on a hill will bring interested people to your campfire.”
41. “When you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want.”
42. “Don’t ever let anyone put out your light because they are blinded by it.”
43. “Music is the beat of a drum that keeps time with our emotions.”
44. “Storms don’t come to teach us painful lessons, rather they were meant to wash us clean.”
45. “You are not what others think you are. You are what God knows you are.”
46. “Being kind to someone, only to look kind to others, defeats the purpose of being kind.”
Shannon Alder Quotes About Love and Relationships
47. “When the person you love can’t see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember this: Love is blind.”
48. “Never give a person a piece of your mind when all you really wanted to do was give them a piece of your heart.”
49. “A wise woman knows when to stay silent. However, a wiser woman of faith knows that sometimes words can win the battle, when all odds stand against her.”
50. “God is always trying to give blessings to us, but our minds are usually too full to receive them.”
51. “Sometimes the silence of your friends is worse than your enemy’s words.”
52. “Swearing doesn’t make your argument valid; it just tells the other person you have lost your class and control.”
53. “Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.”
54. “Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not yet understand.”
55. “A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.”
56. “Feelings are something you have; not something you are.”
57. “Time doesn’t heal all wounds, only distance can lessen the sting of them.”
Shannon L. Alder Quotes About Courage
58. “Lies don’t end relationships the truth does.”
59. “When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long you will walk in hell.”
60. “Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.”
61. “Silence is a lie that screams at the light.”
62. “Honesty is a heart that betrays itself for a dream, a moment, a kiss.”
63. “Many of the most powerful things in life are not tangible. All it takes is for you to close your eyes to see.”
64. “Intelligence is not expecting people to understand what your intent is; it is anticipating how it will be perceived.”
65. “When people don’t tell you the truth what they really are saying is they don’t value you or their relationship with you enough to be honest.”
66. “Sometimes, the people that love you the most turn out to be the people you will trust the least.”
67. “You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”
68. “The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t being said. The art of reading between the lines is a life long quest of the wise.”
69. “Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.”
70. “Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.”
Thought-Provoking Shannon L. Alder Quotes
71. “Sometimes your belief system is really your fears attached to rules.”
72. “If your love for another person doesn’t include loving yourself then your love is incomplete.”
73. “Living a life somewhere else in your mind is nothing more than being a prisoner where you are.”
74. “There is always a storm. There is always rain. Some experience it. Some live through it. And others are made from it.”
75. “It is not what you leave to your children that matters, but what you leave in them.”
76. “Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit.”
77. “Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of reality is not your reality.”
78. “Sometimes the one thing you need for growth is the one thing you are afraid to do.”
79. “When you are no longer afraid is when you can be yourself.”
80. “Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you finally do know you can’t let go.”
81. “To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.”
82. “Forgiveness is the one gift you don’t give to others. Rather, it is the gift you give yourself, so you can finally be free.”
83. “Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing to confess.”
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84. “Worry does not keep it from raining tomorrow, but it does keep it from being sunny today.”
85. “Never pray to be a better slave when God is trying to get you out of your situation.”
86. “Tolerance is nothing more than patience with boundaries.”
87. “I never wanted to be a God fearing person. I wanted to grow up and be a person that was fearless for God. There was a difference.”
88. “No one can change a person, but a person can be the reason someone changes.”
89. “True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.”
90. “Every broken heart has one time or another asked, “What is important to me now?”
91. “Sometimes the bridges you burn light the way out of your darkness, but the memory of the blaze will be burned into your heart and mind forever.”
92. “If there was any great lesson in life it was this: No battle was ever won with silence.”
93. “Everyone loses their class when they travel through hell, but only a few will regain it if they remain humble and accept the part they played in their own misery.”
94. “The people that truly love us in life don’t fight for us to remain a doormat for others.”
95. “It is not what happens to you that matters; it is how you feel about it that does.”
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